It's Sunday afternoon, and I'm getting ready to leave town again after a VERY stressful, tiring few days back home. We got the electrical problems taken care of. I did a MONTH'S worth of editing in under 4 days (and I have the tired eye to prove it.) Now I need to go back to MaryBear's not to RELAX as I'd originally planned, but because her daughter Sha-we is not well & someone needs to be with her at all times. I was ready for ALL of the above. But I was NOT ready for the news I received. My best friend of over 23 years, Mar (short for Marlene) has been back and forth with her husband Sid to doctors these past few months. He had a number of mini-strokes, as well as a bunch of other strange health issues and no one seemed to have answers. Now they do. Sid - who's my wonderful friend and is dearer than a brother, and my best friend's husband of 45 years - has stage 4 liver cancer. No, he doesn't drink - never HAS. It's related to his bile duct. He doesn't have a huge chance of getting better because he was misdiagnosed for SO LONG the cancer has spread. And he is now approaching 80. My heart is totally broken. Sid - with his kind spirit and giving heart, would greet me with a huge smile, and in his very heavy and musical accent say, "Welcome home, sweetheart!" whenever I entered their house. I adore him. And, needless to SAY, I love my best friend with my entire heart. So, before I leave, I will ask all of you who believe in prayer to pray for my best friend and her husband. For those who don't pray, I will ask that you hold good and positive thoughts for his recovery. I have been told the doctor may be unable to save ANY of the damaged liver. I am being tested immediately to learn if I'm a match because I am ready to donate part of MY liver if he needs it. (It's about ALL this old worn out body of mine has that's still pretty decent!) Thanks to all of you for letting me pour out my heart and cry a bit before I have to go and be strong for Sha-we later today. I LOVE YOU ALL, and I am continuously grateful for you! I'll be back during the final week of this month!
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| BEST FRIENDS, KAI AND MAR ON THANKSGIVING DAY OF 1989. |
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| MY BELOVED 'PLAY' BROTHER, SID, IN 1991 |